Tell me how often you hear that it is up to you? Lately I am getting this as I try explaining and even though you did. People will reply to your that it is up to you like they are no interested to listen to your excuse or explanation.
People whom I treated as friend turn out that way? Have this ever happened to you?
Anyway life goes on as usual. It is up to the person to accept whether they want to listen to your or not.