My friend bring her son to the restaurant where I was having Chinese herbal tea, she has a daughter seven year old and a son aged almost three year old. She told me that she has hesistation of having another child because it is difficult to take care the children at all time. She has nobody to help her to care her children.
It is not just about taking care of children but also the financial. We two agreed on health expenses for the children are costly. The medical fee for their injection and formula powder milk if you are not breastfeeding.
We will be lucky if we have mother-in-law or sister-in-law or working parents have money to send children to nursery or nanny to care. Talking of pregnancy, my girl friend has difficulty to get pregnant, she has no idea it is her problem or his problem the fact is he has no interest to go for check up! It would be great if both agree to go check up together to find out why they cannot have baby.
Talking of kids my heart bleed knowing William Yau Zhen Zhong missing boy was found dead after nine days of missing.